Showing posts with label feeding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feeding. Show all posts
Friday, September 14, 2012
At lunch yesterday I met a grandmother and a beautiful baby girl. As most women typically do I got the "Are they twins? How old?" and tells me her baby was 14 months old. We watched the grandmother sign "more" and play games with her etc. Until she told me she was the grandmother I would have swore she was her mom.
After a few minutes came "Who was bigger? How much did they weigh?" and that's when the Preemie-ness appeared. She told me "What miracles I had." And then as she was feeding the baby girl a bottle she paused and explained, the little girl has severe food allergies. Has to have special formula ($75 a CAN) and special made purees. And as a result they were struggling to get her to drop the bottle. But that was the only way she would drink her special formula, so they had no choice.
You could absolutely see the relief on her face when I told her about Addison.... Like "Finally someone else gets it." As it turns out the baby girl was too a preemie, by about a month. Funny how that almost instantly bonds us preemie families. She told me that her granddaughter had some mild delays too and sung the praises if our county's Early Intervention Program.
Take a minute to think about this, especially if your are a parent as well. Have you ever had to think twice about what you were feeding you little one. Did every meal take careful planning because they might choke or have an allergic reaction? Have you ever had to be cautious yourself because of an allergy or something else? For most people it's mindless and second nature, for those of us effected it's not. I think sometimes people assume because Addison is eating, she can have whatever. That's not entirely true. Too much milk/juice etc, at once will make her gag or choke and she tolerates so much less then Blake does. Food that is too thick, thin, hard, soft, chewy, the list goes on, can cause the same thing. and guess what, the minute she gags or chokes you can almost bet she is done and won't try again. Would you? You would be scared too.
Seeing this baby made me thankful that Addison doesn't have any major food allergies (other then cake icing) that we know of (knock on wood). Because that would complicate things so much more in this process. It gave me a dose of perspective and made me realize once again, that we are not alone. It also made me thankful for this miracle that the other baby girl was too. Looking at her she looked like the perfect picture of health. Like Addison she wasn't letting this "hiccup" hold her down. Babies amaze me. Their fight and will to overcome. God bless them and the families that love and support/encourage them. It takes some extra special people to be blessed with such challenges.
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Monday, July 23, 2012
Each week the Preemie Resource Blog will look at one issue that effects preemies and their parents.This week we will discuss reflux, one of the most common issues among premature babies. Read Stacy's story about her son's struggle with reflux.
REFLUX
Reflux is one of the most common but
least diagnosed issues with preemies. I’ve found that many doctors do not want
to start a medication regimen for preemies in the NICU. What that means is that
many babies go home and continue to suffer out loud or in silence.
If you have ever had reflux or
heartburn, you can imagine what a little baby is feeling every time they eat. I
remember crying 8-10 times a day- every time my son ate. It was heartbreaking
to have to feed him when he was in so much pain. Then the spitting up got
worse. I was told; “babies spit up.” This was not a baby just “spitting up”.
WHAT IS GER?
“GER is Gastroesophageal Reflux. Gastro means
stomach, and esophageal refers to the esophagus, the tube inside the throat
that connects the mouth to the stomach. A muscle at the top of the stomach
(also called the Lower Esophageal Sphincter or LES) naturally opens and closes
to allow swallowing, burping, and vomiting. Refluxing occurs when the stomach
acid and partially digested food flow back up through the LES into the
esophagus. All children and adults will naturally reflux throughout the day,
especially after eating. However, if the muscle opens too frequently and
refluxing occurs too often, complications can develop.
Premature infants have an increased risk of
developing GER. There are several medical conditions that can cause reflux, but
in preterm infants, the most common causes are immature muscles and abnormal
breathing from chronic lung disease. If the lower esophageal sphincter is weak
or underdeveloped, it can remain open when it should be closed, letting the
stomach contents flow back up the esophagus. When an infant or child breathes
abnormally because of chronic lung disease, the muscles used for breathing work
harder. As these muscles work hard to breathe, they can pull on the muscles
near the top of the stomach, stretching the sphincter and causing it to remain
open.
When the stomach contents flow inappropriately up
into the esophagus they bring acid from the stomach. As the acid irritates the
tissue inside the esophagus, it becomes inflamed and reddened. This condition
is called esophagitis. Esophagitis is painful, similar to the pain of
heartburn. This is why an infant will refuse to eat or stop eating - she is
protecting herself from the pain of the acid touching the damaged tissue. If
the reflux is severe, the stomach contents may go high enough into the
esophagus to be aspirated or spilled into the lungs causing choking, color
changes, frequent respiratory infections, apnea (breathing slows or stops)
and/or bradycardia (slowed heart rate).”
SYMPTOMS:
As I said, “babies spit up” but reflux is much more
than that. Here are some common signs and symptoms:
•
spitting up frequently (more than
2 times a day);
•
fussy often throughout the day
(specifically before, during or after eating)
•
refusing to eat,
•
fighting eating;
•
taking only small amounts of
formula or food, regardless of the amount of time since the last feeding;
•
back arching during feedings;
•
bradycardia;
•
choking or apnea during or after
eating;
•
skin color turns pale or grayish
during or after eating;
•
poor weight gain; and/or frequent
respiratory infections.
Many parents say, "She acts like it hurts to
eat" or "It just seems like she is in pain."
My son would spit up every time he ate, even if he was held upright for
an hour after he ate. He refused to eat and would only eat a small amount every
2 hours. He would arch his back and cry and scream. It broke my heart because
he was a happy baby when he wasn’t eating or refluxing. Although his weight
gain was slow, he was always gaining so the doctors weren’t concerned. But
mother’s intuition told me that it was more than just spitting up. Eventually, my son spit up so badly that he stopped
breathing and my husband and I had to bulb syringe him until color came back to
his face. It was after that point that we finally got our diagnosis.
For more on reflux--how is it diagnosed, treated, and other how helpful information--click here
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